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of how much you make, it’s easy to project an air of power and
confidence commonly associated with the wealthy, as long as you focus on
the right things.
Sylvie di Giusto worked in human resources for more than 20 years before becoming an image consultant in 2009.
Her company, Executive Image Consulting,
has worked with executives looking to improve how they present
themselves and professionals looking to rise in the corporate hierarchy.
She also gives dress-code consulting to corporations, which have
included McKinsey, BMW, and Thomas Cook, according to her website.
With inspiration from Vicky Oliver’s
book, “The Millionaire’s Handbook: How to Look and Act Like a
Millionaire, Even If You’re Not,” we asked di Giusto how anyone could
look like a millionaire, regardless of their net worth. Here’s what she
said, with some of Oliver’s advice thrown in.
Vivian Giang contributed to this article.
Invest wisely by using the one-third rule.
Every man should have at least one good
suit, and every woman should have at least one good jacket with matching
pants or a skirt. Di Giusto recommends that these “investment pieces”
should feel expensive, but that for her clients, “The more they make,
the more they have to invest.”
She clarifies that professionals can
“shop smart,” as long as they don’t skimp on quality. She recommends
visiting designer outlets, as well as online equivalents, like The
Outnet and Gilt.
In her book, Oliver recommends sticking
to the “one-third rule”: Buy “one-third as many clothes as you do now,
but spend three times as much on each item.” So instead of buying three
pairs of pants at average prices, buy one pair of expensive pants and
wear them everywhere.
Consider every detail, down to your iPhone case.
Di Giusto remembers a job applicant she
interviewed when she worked for a German company. The interviewee looked
great and said all the right things. At the interview’s conclusion, he
took out his iPhone to schedule a follow up. As he edited his calendar,
di Giusto noticed an offensive word emblazoned on his phone’s case, and
in that moment she found herself questioning everything she previously
thought about him. She ended up hiring him, but he almost invalidated a
great first impression with a careless oversight.
“If you’re serious about your image, you
need to be aware that it goes far beyond your suit,” di Giusto said.
That means realizing that your desk, your accessories, and even your
smartphone’s case need to be an extension of your professional image.
Conform your style to your industry, but allow one “statement piece.”
It should be evident that regardless of
your company’s dress code, there’s a general way that people dress
according to industry.
Di Giusto recommends that for the most
part, you should not try too hard to distinguish yourself. If you work
in finance, dress conservatively; if you work in tech, go for casual
chic. A good rule of thumb is to dress the way your company’s executives
do.
That said, di Giusto doesn’t want her
clients to turn into boring clones of each other. She recommends one
flexible statement piece appropriate for the workplace. For example, di
Giusto has a pair of unique eyeglasses she likes to wear with business
attire. She also mentioned a CEO who dresses the part in traditional
dark suits, but has them lined with flashy pink or floral patterns.
Understand that “casual” does not mean “sloppy.”
The problem with casual, said di Giusto, is that unlike “formal,” it has never been properly defined.
“Many people think casual means that you
don’t have to care,” di Giusto said. Instead, casual should mean that
just a few pieces of your business attire are different. She pointed to
President Barack Obama, whose usual definition of casual is taking off
his jacket and tie and rolling up his sleeves. You can go a step further
and replace slacks with a nice pair of well-fitting jeans, but don’t
deviate too far from typical business attire.
Di Giusto says one of her rules for
casual is that it can be quickly dressed up. For example, bring a jacket
on Casual Friday. Then, if an important meeting pops up, you can throw
it on.
Less is more with cologne or perfume.
The scent you apply should never be so strong that it distracts someone from what you are saying.
“The moment you smell your fragrance,
you know you’re wearing too much,” said di Giusto. Interestingly, she
said that this advice does not apply everywhere, since in places like
Italy or France, it is customary to liberally use cologne or perfume.
But Americans should keep their fragrance application subtle, said di
Giusto.
Never let a “flaw” undermine your confidence.
The key to projecting an air of power is
being self-confident. And the worst thing for self-confidence is having
a nagging thought about a flaw in your appearance. No one may notice
the missing button on your jacket, but as soon as you start worrying
about it, your behavior may unconsciously draw attention to it, said di
Giusto. Likewise, if one day you wake up and decide your teeth aren’t
white enough, others may start to agree.
Whatever the issue, either accept it or
make the necessary adjustment. Because if you’re not comfortable with
yourself, you’re not going to look your best.
Dress to appear taller.
Powerful people take up space.
“Subconsciously, we seek leaders who are tall because we associate
height with authority,” Oliver says in her book.
So if you’re lacking this advantage
naturally, you can create the illusion of height. Examiner recommends
women wear heels that are not booties or “strappy” around the ankle, and
AskMen suggests that men opt for dark colors to project power. Both
advise that shorter people go for form-fitting clothes and monochromatic
outfits.
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